ops: Fix offloading with FP8MM performance (#11697)

This logic was checking comfy_cast_weights, and going straight to
to the forward_comfy_cast_weights implementation without
attempting to downscale input to fp8 in the event comfy_cast_weights
is set.

The main reason comfy_cast_weights would be set would be for async
offload, which is not a good reason to nix FP8MM.

So instead, and together the underlying exclusions for FP8MM which
are:

* having a weight_function (usually LowVramPatch)
* force_cast_weights (compute dtype override)
* the weight is not Quantized
* the input is already quantized
* the model or layer has MM explictily disabled.

If you get past all of those exclusions, quantize the input tensor.
Then hand the new input, quantized or not off to
forward_comfy_cast_weights to handle it. If the weight is offloaded
but input is quantized you will get an offloaded MM8.

comfy/model_patcher.py

@@ -718,6 +718,7 @@ class ModelPatcher:
                             continue
 
                 cast_weight = self.force_cast_weights
+                m.comfy_force_cast_weights = self.force_cast_weights
                 if lowvram_weight:
                     if hasattr(m, "comfy_cast_weights"):
                         m.weight_function = []